Reason for the title

Almost every time my mother visits us she says, "It's like that old movie where a guy is running a boarding house and there is a ballerina dancing in the living room and a man shooting off fireworks in the basement. Everyone is doing something different.". Welcome to my world. As a mother of 6 and grandmother of 2, I have a lot going on in my life and a lot going on in my head. Here is an attempt to straighten out my head, kind of.